When Love Becomes Culture: Translating RLT into Community PeaceIn this powerful episode, host Sarah Melissa Oswald sits down with therapist and peace facilitator Chiddie Anyasodo to explore her remarkable journey from oil and gas engineer to relational healer. Drawing on her background in engineering systems and her training in Relational Life Therapy (RLT), Chiddie has pioneered a groundbreaking approach to conflict resolution, transforming age-old community tensions in Nigeria through the creation of the “Five Masquerades” metaphor.
Chiddie shares how she helped a village locked in a 19-year conflict find common ground, peace, and even laughter by translating complex relational dynamics into cultural stories that resonated deeply with her community. From navigating patriarchal structures to disarming resistance and shame, Chiddie demonstrates how relational skills can heal not just couples, but entire communities. This conversation is both inspiring and practical, a glimpse into how systemic change begins with relational courage, creativity, and compassion. Available October 3, 2025: Spotify Amazon Music Apple Music Youtube Substack iHeartRadio |
"If we can translate relational wisdom into the metaphors of each culture, we really can build world peace. Village by village, relationship by relationship."
-Chiddie Anyasodo
Show NotesChiddie's Website: https://chotayah.com/
Chiddie's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chidiebereanya/ Bringing Peace Home, through RLT practitioner, Chiddie Anyasodo (blog) Scholarship application for RLT Resources |