Find an RLT Practitioner Today
To match you with an RLT practitioner in training, complete this confidential form about you and/or your partnership.
How Practitioner Matching Works
We match you with the RLT practitioner best suited to your needs by considering your goals, preferences, and the challenges you’d like to address. We also factor in whether you prefer a coach or therapist, as well as your preferred session format.
We offer both licensed therapists and coaches, some of which work in person, and some offer remote sessions. We encourage you to look through our practitioner listing and see if anyone resonates with you before filling out the application for this program.
If you haven’t found a therapist or coach, we will personally match you with a practitioner based on your background, history and preferences. Before committing, you'll receive a 15 minute complimentary consultation with this practitioner.
If your practitioner ends up not being a good fit for you after the first or second session, you can request a different practitioner and apply the balance of your sessions there. We do not provide refunds for your sliding scale sessions.
We offer both licensed therapists and coaches, some of which work in person, and some offer remote sessions. We encourage you to look through our practitioner listing and see if anyone resonates with you before filling out the application for this program.
If you haven’t found a therapist or coach, we will personally match you with a practitioner based on your background, history and preferences. Before committing, you'll receive a 15 minute complimentary consultation with this practitioner.
If your practitioner ends up not being a good fit for you after the first or second session, you can request a different practitioner and apply the balance of your sessions there. We do not provide refunds for your sliding scale sessions.
What is Sliding Scale Couples Therapy?
Sliding scale couples therapy is a form of relationship counseling where the fee is adjusted based on your income or financial situation, aiming to make it more accessible and affordable for individuals or couples who might not be able to afford standard rates. Rates and fees are determined based on household income, family size, and overall financial need.
Find a Coach or Therapist
RLT Practitioners
Browse our RLT practitioners to find relationship therapists and coaches near you, or connect with those offering virtual sessions via Zoom or phone.
Can see clients Worldwide:
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Amy McFarling Relationship Coach Sessions over Zoom (anywhere), In-Person (Boulder, CO) Sees Couples and Individuals Certified Somatic Sex Educator and Relationship Coach: Amy specializes in helping individuals and couples find sexual and emotional expression in line with their values and relationship container. Learn more: www.amymcfarling.com |
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Anna Chapman Relationship Coach Sessions over Zoom, In-Person, Phone Sees Couples, Individuals, Families A certified Leadership and Enneagram coach, Anna believes that we are all leaders and that our communication skills and understanding of ourselves and others impacts all of the relationships we have. Learn more: integreleadership.com |
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Bee Tussaud Relationship Therapist Sessions over Zoom (Worldwide), In-Person (London) Sees Couples, Individuals and Families Preferred language: English Specializes in relational family, parent and individual work |
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Beverly Ehrlich Relationship Coach Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples and Individuals Preferred language: English & Hebrew Empowers individuals and couples to reclaim connection and master the art of full-respect living for deeply fulfilling, more harmonious and joyful relationships. Learn more: www.bev.co.il |
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Birgit Huvendieck Relationship Coach Sessions over Zoom & In-Person Sees Couples and Individuals Preferred language: English & German Supports couples and individuals to foster connection with themselves and partner(s) with kindness, clarity and honest conversation. Working with sound for 13 years, trained in Somatic Emotional Integration (SEI) working with early relational Trauma. Learn more: https://www.klangmassage-braunschweig.de/ , http://www.birgithuvendieck.de/ |
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Carlos Zubillaga Relationship Coach Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples & Individuals Preferred language: English & Spanish Specializes in helping couples facing deep relational crises or infidelity rebuild trust and create a healthier, more authentic relationship through personal responsibility and truth-telling. Experienced with culturally diverse couples. For those in the Christian faith, faith is welcomed as a resource for healing. Learn more: https://sospareja.com/ |
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Grant Gosch Relationship Coach Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples Preferred language: English Relational Life Therapy - coaching for couples on the edge, specializing in power dynamics, repair, accountability, and rebuilding intimacy through clear, direct, truth-telling work. Learn more: www.grantgosch.com |
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Ikey Greene Relationship Coach Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples & Individuals Preferred language: English & Hebrew Relational Life Therapy fully trained, Trauma-Informed ICF-Certified Coach. I help couples shift from reactivity to repair, fostering empathy, honest dialogue, and lasting connection. Learn more: https://ikeygreene.com/ |
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Kassandra Brown, BS Certified ++ Relationship Coach, Certified Somatic Sex Educator Based in Boulder, Colorado In-person in Boulder. Virtual clients anywhere in the world. Lean more: www.KassandraBrown.org |
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Lisa Magel Relationship Coach Sessions over zoom Sees Couples Lisa works as a couples consultant under Melissa Orlov, as well as having her own private practice as an ADHD Coach. Her ADHD Coach training is through the ADD Coach Academy (ADDCA). She also specializes in ADHD Parents/families. Learn more: Illuminateadhd.com |
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Marina Nabao Relationship Coach & Somatic Practitioner Sees Couples over Zoom & In-person in Mill Valley, Bay Area, CA Speaks English and Brazilian Portuguese Marina works with couples who have walked through the fire together - trauma, loss, health issues in the family, fertility struggles, betrayal, etc - and want to reclaim their relational joy and erotic aliveness. Her approach integrates Somatic Experiencing®, Relational Life Couple’s Coaching, Parts Work, Sexual Tao and Neo Tantra traditions, Energy Healing, and Embodied Spirituality. Learn more: https://marinanabao.com |
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Maya Sloan Relationship Therapist & Coach Based in Canada Speaks English & German Sessions over Zoom & In-Person Sees Couples & Individuals Maya works with couples with a wish to lead more thriving, connected, fulfilled lives. Learn more: mayasloan.ca |
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Stephanie Mcilvaine (not currently accepting clients) Relationship Coach/Therapist Sessions via Zoom & In-Person Sees Couples & Individuals RLT certified and has extensive work in trauma. Learn more: vitalityakron.com |
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Tapas Dwivedi Relationship Coach Preferred Language: English, Hindi Sessions via Zoom & In-Person (Berlin, Germany) Sees Couples & Individuals Supports couples and other relationships (co-parents, exes, friends, co-founders) to understand the root of their conflicts, rebuild trust and intimacy, and improve their relationship satisfaction. Learn More: tapasdwivedi.com |
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Tawni Fox Relationship Coach Sessions via Zoom & Phone Sees Couples & Individuals Helps couples and individuals understand their patterns, work with emotional reactions, and create more connected, respectful, and satisfying relationships. Learn more: tawnifoxalchemy.com |
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Yvonne Hertzberger Relationship Coach Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples Specializes in gender, culture, diversity (not polyamory) |
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Zoe Ewart Relationship Coach Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples Zoe is an addiction trauma-trained coach specializing in behavior change using Affective Liminal Psychology to dig into conscious and subconscious beliefs and connections around said behaviors. Learn more: www.coachingwithzoe.com |
Australia
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Anne Sidebottom Relationship Coach Sessions over zoom Sees Couples & Individuals Helps professionals and parents navigate anxiety, relationship challenges, and major life transitions. Whether you're a couple feeling more like roommates than lovers, or an individual standing at a crossroads wondering what's next, Anne creates a space where transformation feels possible. |
Canada
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Caryle Jansen Relationship Therapist Based in Ontario, Canada Sessions Over Zoom Sees Couples & Individuals Specializes in sex and intimacy-related challenges as well as other types of couple distress. Experienced working with kink, sex work, non-monogamous, LGBTQI+ communities. Learn more: www.carlylejansen.com |
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Gizella Nagy Relationship Therapist based in Canada, British Columbia Sessions Over Zoom Sees Couples, Individuals and Families Speaks Hungarian & English Gizella supports clients in identifying patterns, resolving conflicts, improving communication, deepening empathy, and fostering emotional and relational growth through trauma-informed, experiential Humanistic Psychology. www.startagaincounselling.com |
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Koby Smutylo Relationship Therapist and Coach based in California & Canada Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples, Individuals & Families Men, anxiety, depression, transitions. Learn more: Strongandconnected.com |
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Israel
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United States
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Michael Jarvis Relationship Coach based in United States Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples & Individuals After 30 years in corporate leadership, Michael dedicated himself to Relational Life Therapy in 2013, first transforming his own relationships before training to help others do the same. Michael provide a high-accountability, results-oriented coaching environment for couples and individuals. Learn more: YourRelationalLife.com |
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Walton Montet Relationship Coach based in Denver, CO Sessions over Zoom & In-Person Sees Couples, Individuals & Families Experiential Relationship Connection Coach Guiding relationships (family, couples, men, teens) with a mentor vibe. Navigating real teamwork through relationship, self esteem, life skills. Focused Neurobiology self-relationship guidance. A System/Offense to make real authentic connection for change. Learn more: Sacredplayground.net |
California
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Janet Weber Relationship therapist based California Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples Works with both couples & individuals. Works with a lot of men with ADHD. The methods she utilizes include compassionate Inquiry, IFS & RLT. Learn more: https://www.delvetherapy.com/ |
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Colorado
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Jodie Dean Relationship Therapist based in Colorado Sees couples and individuals in person & over zoom Works with burned out moms and stuck men - individually or as a couple - to move in a fresh direction in relationship. Learn more: www.tailwindcounseling.net |
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Connecticut
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Florida
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Maryland
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Shanell Wyche Hodges Relationship Therapist Sessions In-Person & Zoom Sees Couples & Individuals Couples/Marriage therapy; PTSD; Individuals with childhood trauma and/or anxiety; Attachment Issues Learn more: togethercouplescounseling.com/about-shanell/ |
New Jersey
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New York
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Gwendolyn Feldman Relationship therapist based in New York Sessions by Zoom & In-Person Sees Couples & Individuals Gwen works predominantly with people who suffer with CPTSD and have severe childhood trauma. She is psychoanalytically trained with a strong relational and interpersonal focus. She helps people uncover relationship patterns and roles they play in perpetuating cycles which are no longer adaptive. She often say it takes two to tango but you if can’t identify your missteps, you’ll always continue to dance incorrectly. Learn more: www.GwenFeldman.com |
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Lindsey Wirht Relationship therapist based in New York Sessions by Zoom Sees Couples Lindsey specializes in couples work centered around honesty, self-accountability, and connection. She is experienced with anxiety + stress-related issues, ocd, relational trauma, family/in-law dynamics, finances, and family planning. Learn more: https://www.lindseywirht-therapy.com/ |
Texas
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Misty Jasso Relationship therapist based in Texas Sessions by Zoom & In-Person Sees Couples & Individuals Fearlessly attuned and deeply insightful, Misty confronts generational trauma and emotional complexity with clarity, compassion, and unflinching truth to guide transformative healing in couples and individuals. Learn more: www.distinct1therapy.com |
Frequently Asked Questions
Can Three Sessions of RLT Actually Help?
Yes! Many RLT participants report a significant reframing of their problems and a gaining of the ability to respond more effectively. RLT is known for creating lasting change in very little time. Practitioners are trained to speak the truth to clients in a way that elicits fast and permanent character change. RLT makes an alliance with the part of your brain that doesn't want to use the tools. It teaches you how to respond to others from the "wise adult" part of your brain and get more of what you want in life. Click here to learn more about what makes RLT unique and powerful.
How do you determine the sliding scale fee?
Sliding scale allows people an affordable option for couples and relationship therapy. Fees are typically based on household income, family size, and overall financial need. Some couples therapists and coaches may ask for proof of income (like pay stubs or tax returns), while others use the honor system.
Do you offer virtual sessions?
Yes. Many of our RLT therapists offer telehealth sessions, giving couples access to therapy no matter where they live.
How Are Practitioners Chosen for RLF?
Our therapy is provided by trained and vetted RLT practitioners, many of whom offer services through our sliding scale program to ensure affordability. All therapists are committed to the principles of relational empowerment, integrity, and healing.
How Can I Find the Right Practitioner for My Situation?
When you complete our Therapy Inquiry Form, we take the time to understand your relationship goals, challenges, and preferences—including financial needs, scheduling, and whether you're seeking in-person or virtual sessions. Based on this information, our team will thoughtfully match you with an RLT-trained therapist who aligns with your unique situation.
If at any point you feel the fit isn’t quite right, we’re here to support a smooth transition to another practitioner. Our priority is helping you find a therapist you feel safe with, challenged by, and supported by—so meaningful work can begin.
If at any point you feel the fit isn’t quite right, we’re here to support a smooth transition to another practitioner. Our priority is helping you find a therapist you feel safe with, challenged by, and supported by—so meaningful work can begin.
What makes Relational Life Foundation’s therapy unique?
We offer therapy grounded in Relational Life Therapy (RLT)—a bold, skills-based approach that addresses patterns, builds accountability, and helps couples reconnect with respect and intimacy.
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DISCLAIMER:
While the therapists and coaches listed are in the process of completing the course work required by RLI for full RLT certification, RLF does not guarantee results from anyone on this list. No professional listed is an agent of RLI of RLF, and all treatment is the sole responsibility of the individual therapist or coach. Any arrangement made by you and your therapist or coach is strictly between you and them. |