Sliding Scale Relational Life Therapy & CoachingAffordable, Skills Based Therapy and Coaching for Individuals and Couples
In collaboration with our generous practitioners-in-training, We offer five (5) sessions at a sliding-scale rate determined by household income and financial circumstances. Our goal is simple: cost should not be the barrier to beginning relational repair. You are not alone in feeling stuck. Repair is possible. |
Who This Is For
This program is for individuals and couples who:
Relational Life Therapy is direct, skills based, and focused on accountability and repair. Many participants report meaningful shifts within three sessions.
- Feel stuck in repeating conflict
- Are navigating betrayal, distance, or disconnection
- Want to strengthen communication before problems escalate
- Are unsure whether to stay or separate
- Are seeking a more affordable option than traditional private therapy
Relational Life Therapy is direct, skills based, and focused on accountability and repair. Many participants report meaningful shifts within three sessions.
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How It Works
- Complete our confidential inquiry form
- Agree upon a comfortable per session rate
- Get matched with an RLT practitioner-in-training
- Complete your 15 minute discovery session
- Complete five structured sessions
- From there, you choose to continue the relationship with your therapist/coach based on what feels right for you
If the fit is not right after your first or second session, we will help you transition to another practitioner for the remaining sessions.
What Makes This Approach Different?
Relational Life Therapy goes beyond exploring feelings. It teaches practical, relational skills:
-Clear communication
-Boundary setting
-Accountability without shame
-Conflict repair
-Moving from reactivity to thoughtful response
This work is grounded in Relational Life Therapy, developed by Terry Real, and practiced worldwide.
Meet Our Practitioners
Our practitioners are either licensed therapists or certified coaches who are completing advanced training through the Relational Life Institute. All services are provided independently by each practitioner. Relational Life Foundation does not guarantee outcomes.
Can see clients Worldwide:
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Amy McFarling Relationship Coach Sessions over Zoom (anywhere), In-Person (Boulder, CO) Sees Couples and Individuals Certified Somatic Sex Educator and Relationship Coach: Amy specializes in helping individuals and couples find sexual and emotional expression in line with their values and relationship container. Learn more: www.amymcfarling.com |
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Anna Chapman Relationship Coach Sessions over Zoom, In-Person, Phone Sees Couples, Individuals, Families A certified Leadership and Enneagram coach, Anna believes that we are all leaders and that our communication skills and understanding of ourselves and others impacts all of the relationships we have. Learn more: integreleadership.com |
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Anne Moses Relationship Coach Sessions over Zoom & In-Person Sees Couples & Individuals Anne works with clients who feel stuck and want something more from their lives and relationships. In collaboration with her, individuals and couples find a supportive and safe place to explore their problems and create ways to reach goals that seem so far away. They find a fork in the road that can lead to profound, deep and sustained change. Her background includes degrees in business, social services, and history of religion. She's been a leader and coach in complex, multicultural public health and hospital administration. |
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Beverly Ehrlich Relationship Coach Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples and Individuals Preferred language: English & Hebrew Empowers individuals and couples to reclaim connection and master the art of full-respect living for deeply fulfilling, more harmonious and joyful relationships. Learn more: www.bev.co.il |
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Birgit Huvendieck Relationship Coach Sessions over Zoom & In-Person Sees Couples and Individuals Preferred language: English & German Supports couples and individuals to foster connection with themselves and partner(s) with kindness, clarity and honest conversation. Working with sound for 13 years, trained in Somatic Emotional Integration (SEI) working with early relational Trauma. Learn more: https://www.klangmassage-braunschweig.de/ , http://www.birgithuvendieck.de/ |
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Carlos Zubillaga Relationship Coach Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples & Individuals Preferred language: English & Spanish Specializes in helping couples facing deep relational crises or infidelity rebuild trust and create a healthier, more authentic relationship through personal responsibility and truth-telling. Experienced with culturally diverse couples. For those in the Christian faith, faith is welcomed as a resource for healing. |
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Celia Owens Relationship Coach Sessions In-Person & over Zoom Sees Couples, Individuals & Families Celia is a Relational Coach, with Masters Certification in Neuro-Linguistic Programming, and an MA in International Peace and Conflict Studies. The people she sees are couples, individuals with family or friend issues, and people with workplace issues. She also works with families facing end-of-life issues. Her work is trauma-informed, and culturally sensitive. |
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Eva Greene Relationship Coach Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples & Individuals Preferred language: English & Hebrew Relational Life Therapy fully trained, Trauma-Informed ICF-Certified Coach. I help couples shift from reactivity to repair, fostering empathy, honest dialogue, and lasting connection. Learn more: evagreene.com |
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Grant Gosch Relationship Coach Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples Preferred language: English Relational Life Therapy - coaching for couples on the edge, specializing in power dynamics, repair, accountability, and rebuilding intimacy through clear, direct, truth-telling work. Learn more: www.grantgosch.com |
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Jesse Lehrer Relationship Coach Sessions over Zoom & on the phone Sees Couples & Individuals Preferred language: English Specializes in depression, anxiety, substance use, self harm, and life transitions Jesse Lehrer Relationship Coach Sessions over Zoom & on the phone Sees Couples & Individuals Preferred language: English Specializes in depression, anxiety, substance use, self harm, and life transitions |
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Kassandra Brown, BS Certified ++ Relationship Coach, Certified Somatic Sex Educator Based in Boulder, Colorado In-person in Boulder. Virtual clients anywhere in the world. Learn more: www.KassandraBrown.org |
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Katie Beavan Relationship Coach Sees Couples & Individuals Sessions over Zoom & In-Person Katie helps couples shift from power struggles to relational accountability and authentic connection. She also works with talented young men committed to refining direction, deepening purpose, and maturing emotionally in their professional and intimate lives. Learn more: southportrelational.com |
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Kim Holloway Relationship Coach Sees Couples & Individuals Sessions over Zoom Kim supports individuals and couples who feel stuck in cycles of conflict, shutdown, resentment, or loneliness within their relationships. Together, they work to understand the deeper patterns underneath those dynamics, build healthier communication and repair skills, and create relationships rooted in honesty, vulnerability, accountability, and connection. Learn more: relationshipresetcoaching.com |
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Kornelia Stuphan Relationship Coach based in DC Sessions in-Person, by Zoom & on the Phone Sees Couples & Individuals Kornelia is a Certified Professional Co-Active Coach trained by "The Coaches Training Institute" one of the most renowned training institutes in the US and she has been involved with Terry Reals Teachings and has absorbed and learned Relational Life Therapy for years through Terry's teachings, book and recordings, and finally took the step to get her certification in RLT. She specializes in heterosexual, monogamous relationships with a belief that relationships, if done with enough relationality and insight are spiritual vehicles to help us learn and grow along our path. What we see transpiring in front of us in relationship is nothing but a reflection of what lives inside ourselves. Working with couples has been contributing tremendously to her own growth and learning and she would love to form a co-active, relational alliance with you during your time together to explore the upper limits of what is possible in terms relational joy and bliss. If that interests you please reach out to her - she would feel very honored to enter the sacred space of your relationship for the time you work together. |
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Kristien ("Christine") Van Evelghem Relationship Coach based in Belgium, Europe Sessions by Zoom & In-Person Sees Couples & Individuals Kristien is a certified Authentic Relating Facilitator and coach. She is new to couples work and oh so motivated to hone her skills. She's been trained in holding space, inner child work, core process therapy and IFS. Learn More: https://www.kristiensart.com/ |
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Lee-Ann Tolfree Mertzlufft Relationship Coach based in New York Sessions by Zoom Sees Couples, Individuals & Families Specializes in supporting families, individuals, and couples where ADD, dyslexia, or spectrum disorders play a part. Learn More: www.optionswithlearning.com Lee-Ann Tolfree Mertzlufft Relationship Coach based in New York Sessions by Zoom Sees Couples, Individuals & Families Specializes in supporting families, individuals, and couples where ADD, dyslexia, or spectrum disorders play a part. Contact: www.optionswithlearning.com |
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Lisa Magel Relationship Coach Sessions over zoom Sees Couples Lisa works as a couples consultant under Melissa Orlov, as well as having her own private practice as an ADHD Coach. Her ADHD Coach training is through the ADD Coach Academy (ADDCA). She also specializes in ADHD Parents/families. Learn more: Illuminateadhd.com |
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Luana Rose Relationship Coach Sessions over Zoom, In-Person and on the Phone Sees Couples Somatic Experiencing Practitioner specializing in trauma transformation. Luana helps couples and individuals reset communication, deepen relationships, and regulate stress, so there's space for joy and connection in your busy lives. Learn More: https://thegoodhumanacademy.com/ |
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Marcus Murray Relationship Coach Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples Marcus specializes in the intersection of relational health, fulfilment, and everyday wellbeing — often supporting couples where stress and exhaustion are getting in the way of genuine connection. Alongside RLT training, he holds certifications in stress management, sleep, and nutrition. Learn more: https://relationalskillslab.com |
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Maria-Raluca Marinescu Relationship Coach based in Romania Sessions over zoom Sees Couples, Individuals & Families Maria is deeply committed to enriching relationships, fostering welcoming environments for all seeking to enhance their interpersonal connections by combining her relational therapy and CBT training. Provides services in English, Romanian and German. Maria-Raluca Marinescu Romania Sessions over zoom Sees Couples, Individuals & Families I am deeply committed to enriching relationships, fostering welcoming environments for all seeking to enhance their interpersonal connections by combining my relational therapy and CBT training. Provides services in English, Romanian and German. [email protected] / +40745759848 |
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Marina Nabao Relationship Coach & Somatic Practitioner Sees Couples over Zoom & In-person in Mill Valley, Bay Area, CA Speaks English and Brazilian Portuguese Marina works with couples who have walked through the fire together - trauma, loss, health issues in the family, fertility struggles, betrayal, etc - and want to reclaim their relational joy and erotic aliveness. Her approach integrates Somatic Experiencing®, Relational Life Couple’s Coaching, Parts Work, Sexual Tao and Neo Tantra traditions, Energy Healing, and Embodied Spirituality. Learn more: https://marinanabao.com |
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Mary Ellen Flesher Relationship Coach Sessions over Zoom & In-person Sees Couples & Individuals Mary Ellen helps couples seeking deeper intimacy, connection, and security. She guides them to cultivate love without fear and transform their relationships into lasting partnerships. Learn more: https://maryellenflesher.com/ Mary Ellen Flesher Relationship Coach Sessions over Zoom & In-person Sees Couples & Individuals Mary Ellen helps couples seeking deeper intimacy, connection, and security. She guides them to cultivate love without fear and transform their relationships into lasting partnerships. https://maryellenflesher.com/ |
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Maya Sloan Relationship Therapist & Coach Based in Canada Speaks English & German Sessions over Zoom & In-Person Sees Couples & Individuals Maya works with couples with a wish to lead more thriving, connected, fulfilled lives. Learn more: mayasloan.ca |
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Natalie Zur Nedden Based in Canada & US Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples Languages: English & French Works with couples who want to strengthen their relationships by adding better communication tools, and does discernment work (to stay or leave relationship). 786-519-8884 / https://www.relationalpraxis.com/ Natalie Zur Nedden Relationship Coach based in Canada & US Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples Works with couples who want to strengthen their relationships by adding better communication tools, and does discernment work (to stay or leave relationship). Learn more: https://www.relationalpraxis.com/ |
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Nhan Phan Relationship Coach based in the United Kingdom Sessions over Zoom Speaks Russian & English Sees Couples & Individuals Craving connection but feeling more like strangers than partners? You're not alone — and it doesn't have to stay this way. Having experienced first-hand how RLT transformed her own relationship and personal growth, Nhan is passionate about helping couples break destructive patterns, rebuild genuine intimacy, and find their way back to each other. |
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Nikki Gillespie Relationship Coach based in SW Colorado Sessions over Zoom & In-Person Sees Couples & Individuals Nikki is a certified Somatic Sex Coach, Hakomi Practitioner, Doula, and Childbirth Educator, currently completing RLT training. She supports couples in identifying and working through the obstacles that impact intimacy, helping them build deeper connection and understanding. Learn more: Nikkig-origins.com |
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Ofer Fuchs Relationship Coach based in Portland, OR Sessions over Zoom & In-Person Sees Couples, Individuals & Families Ofer offers Trauma-Informed Wellness and Relationship Coaching, working with both individuals and couples. Their work integrates somatic trauma healing (www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapy-types/somatic-therapy), parts work (using the Voice Dialogue modality, www.voicedialogue.org), and relational coaching. With couples, they draw from Relational Life Therapy (RLT) (https://relationallife.com), supporting partners navigating conflict, trust repair, and/or major life and relationship transitions. |
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Pam Johns Relationship Coach Sessions over Zoom, in-Person, & on the Phone Sees Couples, Individuals & Families After 25 years of polishing high-performance entrepreneurial leaders and teams, Pam's focus now is polishing marriages. At this stage in her career, she finds her purpose in leading with love: helping couples become the best versions of themselves together. As a Relational Life Coach and founder of Double Diamonds Coaching & Retreats, Pam believes both partners are diamonds in the rough — and she is here to help you shine. Whether you're looking to deepen your connection, navigate the messier moments, or simply remember why you fell in love, her retreats and coaching are designed to transform how you love and lead at home. She does: RLT couples coaching | transformational retreats in Mexico | relational development for couples ready to thrive. Because the most important leadership you'll ever do happens in your own home. Learn more: www.2diamonds.pro |
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Prea Gulati Relationship Therapist Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples, Individuals & Families Prea has a PhD in Sociomedical Sciences and am a Behavioral Scientist. Her specialty is integrating various modalities with a focus on helping clients implement sustainable changes in their relationality. Learn more: www.preagulati.com |
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Rosalie Corame Relationship Coach Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples & Individuals Rosalie's focus is on individuals and couples where there is significant developmental trauma, making "ordinary" life tasks and relationship interactions feel overwhelming. Learn more: rosaliecorame.net |
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Sandra Carson Relationship Coach based in Amsterdam Speaks English & Dutch Sessions In-Person & over Zoom Sees Couples & Individuals Sandra guides individuals and couples in committed monogamous and consensual non-monogamous relationships to break through repeating patterns and painful reactivity towards deeper intimacy, more freedom and the ability to show up as themselves in relationship. Learn more: https://sandracarson.com/ |
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Shannon Curran-Anderson Based in Omaha, Nebraska Sessions In-Person & over Zoom Sees Couples & Individuals Helps spiritual men and women overcome emotional overwhelm and HEAL their relationships without years in therapy. [email protected] / 970-371-4311 www.shannoncurran.com Shannon Curran-Anderson Based in Omaha, Nebraska Sessions In-Person & over Zoom Sees Couples & Individuals Helps spiritual men and women overcome emotional overwhelm and HEAL their relationships without years in therapy. Learn more: www.shannoncurran.com |
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Sharon Costanzo Based in West Bountiful, Utah Sessions over Zoom See Couples & Individuals Helps women and couples in dual career relationships navigate conflict, especially when one person feels the relationship is unbalanced. Contact: [email protected] / 385.227.0877 / Respectedandconnected.com Sharon Costanzo Relationship Coach based in West Bountiful, Utah Sessions over Zoom See Couples & Individuals Helps women and couples in dual career relationships navigate conflict, especially when one person feels the relationship is unbalanced. Learn more: Respectedandconnected.com |
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Simal Saujani Relationship Therapist based in Toronto, Canada Sessions In-Person & over Zoom Sees Couples & Individuals Simal's work is relational, holding self with self/other/society always in context, and includes somatic techniques for body awareness and discovery. Learn more: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/therapists/simal-saujani-toronto-on/1241164 |
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Sorrel Pindar Based in Bedford, Bedfordshire, UK Sessions over Zoom Sees Individuals Boarding school 'survivors'; trauma-informed relationship coaching; reconnecting clients with their innate mental health & well-being; 3 Principles-based (spiritual) coaching. Only accepting clients who went to boarding school or are married to someone who went to boarding school. www.sorrelpindar.co.uk Sorrel Pindar Relationship Coach based in Bedford, Bedfordshire, UK Sessions over Zoom Sees Individuals Boarding school 'survivors'; trauma-informed relationship coaching; reconnecting clients with their innate mental health & well-being; 3 Principles-based (spiritual) coaching. Only accepting clients who went to boarding school or are married to someone who went to boarding school. Learn more: www.sorrelpindar.co.uk |
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Steph Dawson-Cosser Relationship Coach based in Johannesburg, South Africa Sessions via Zoom & In-Person Sees Couples, Individuals & Families Specializes in couples in high conflict, communication problems, parenting issues (all ages) family issues pre and post divorce co-parenting and blended family issues, relationship rebuilding, individuals, self-esteem , confidence, betrayal recovery. Learn more: [email protected] Steph Dawson-Cosser Based in Johannesburg, South Africa Relationship Coach Sessions via Zoom & In-Person Sees Couples, Individuals & Families Specializes in couples in high conflict, communication problems, parenting issues (all ages) family issues pre and post divorce co-parenting and blended family issues, relationship rebuilding, individuals, self-esteem , confidence, betrayal recovery. Contact: www.stephdawsoncosser.com / [email protected] |
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Stephanie Mcilvaine (not currently accepting clients) Relationship Coach/Therapist Sessions via Zoom & In-Person Sees Couples & Individuals RLT certified and has extensive work in trauma. Learn more: vitalityakron.com |
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Tapas Dwivedi Relationship Coach Preferred Language: English, Hindi Sessions via Zoom & In-Person (Berlin, Germany) Sees Couples & Individuals Supports couples and other relationships (co-parents, exes, friends, co-founders) to understand the root of their conflicts, rebuild trust and intimacy, and improve their relationship satisfaction. Learn More: tapasdwivedi.com |
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Tawni Fox Relationship Coach Sessions via Zoom & Phone Sees Couples & Individuals Helps couples and individuals understand their patterns, work with emotional reactions, and create more connected, respectful, and satisfying relationships. Learn more: tawnifoxalchemy.com |
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Vauna Byrd Relationship Coach Sessions via Zoom & In-Person (Southwest Utah Area) Sees Couples & Families Vauna is a certified NLP coach. She is excited to bring RLT into her practice to help couples bring deeper intimacy and better communication into their relationship. She also helps couples dealing with betrayal learn how to rebuild and become cherishing with each other. Learn more at https://vauna.coach |
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Veronica L. Nabizadeh Relationship Coach Sessions via Zoom Sees Couples & individuals Veronica L. Nabizadeh, Esq. specializes in helping battle-weary wives and couples de-escalate conflict, break reactive patterns, and restore emotional connection through Relational Life Therapy and her signature Stop, Drop, and Roll, Baby!® method. As a certified RLT Boot Camp facilitator and couples intensivist, as well as a non-litigating attorney and certified family mediator, she brings a unique ability to support both relationship repair and conscious, non-adversarial separation. Her work integrates emotional, practical, and spiritual guidance to help clients move from power struggles to clarity, self-leadership, and aligned decision-making. Learn more: marriagerelationshiprestart.com/ |
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Wil Carlos Based in Nova Scotia, Canada Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples & Individuals Works with Couples with Spiritual or Religious differences, Individuals with Religious baggage/hurt, The Impostor Complex, The Helpers Paradox, and healing your relationship with The Divine. www.myspiritualclarity.com / [email protected] Wil Carlos Relationship Coach based in Nova Scotia, Canada Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples & Individuals Supports couples who know they’re good together but feel stuck in painful, repeating patterns. Wil helps guide them to uncover what’s really happening beneath the surface, reconnect with what truly matters, and often experience meaningful shifts within just three sessions toward a more connected, trusting, and alive relationship. Free 25 min consultation available here to see if it's a good fit . Learn more: https://www.myspiritualclarity.com/rlt-for-couples-foundation |
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Wren Wood Relationship Coach Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples & Individuals Wren is a Certified Internal Family Systems Practitioner and Relationship Coach, integrating the IFS and RLT models into their work with couples. Wren has done advanced training in Intimacy From the Inside Out (an IFS model for working with dyads). Additionally, they receive regular consultation in IFS and RLT and are a Program Assistant for IFSI Level One and Two trainings. Wren is currently on the certification track in Terry Real’s Relational Life Therapy model. Wren became a Certified Course Facilitator, teaching parenting courses for the Neufeld Institute in 2018 and received certification as an Integral Coach through New Ventures West in 2012. Learn more: wrenwood.co |
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Zoe Ewart Relationship Coach Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples Zoe is an addiction trauma-trained coach specializing in behavior change using Affective Liminal Psychology to dig into conscious and subconscious beliefs and connections around said behaviors. Learn more: www.coachingwithzoe.com |
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Zoë Whaley (not currently accepting clients) Relationship Coach (Worldwide) & Therapist (Wisconsin, USA) Sessions over Zoom & In-Person Sees Couples & Individuals Certified Developmental and Relational Trauma Therapist (DARTT). Zoë has extensive experience working with people with significant histories of relational trauma. Specifically, she uses Relational Life Therapy to help couples overcome self-defeating and destructive patterns and move into greater alignment and connection with each other and themselves. If you are sick of being stuck in cycles of intense conflict, cold/icy distance or want to reclaim intimacy and deep connection in your relationship, please reach out. Zoë incorporates elements of somatic therapies into her work and is EMDR trained. Learn more: www.homebodywi.com |
Australia
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Anne Sidebottom Relationship Coach Sessions over zoom Sees Couples & Individuals Helps professionals and parents navigate anxiety, relationship challenges, and major life transitions. Whether you're a couple feeling more like roommates than lovers, or an individual standing at a crossroads wondering what's next, Anne creates a space where transformation feels possible. |
Canada
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Carlyle Jansen Relationship Therapist Based in Ontario, Canada Sessions Over Zoom Sees Couples & Individuals Specializes in sex and intimacy-related challenges as well as other types of couple distress. Experienced working with kink, sex work, non-monogamous, LGBTQI+ communities. Learn more: www.carlylejansen.com |
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Ciara Williams Relationship Therapist Based in Ontario, Canada Sessions Over Zoom Sees Couples Ciara is a relational, trauma-informed psychotherapist integrating IFS and AEDP with her training in RLT to help individuals and couples transform attachment wounds, over-functioning, burnout, and stuck relationship patterns. Her work goes beyond insight, guiding clients to shift protective patterns at their emotional root so they can move from survival mode into secure, embodied living. |
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Gizella Nagy Relationship Therapist based in Canada, British Columbia Sessions Over Zoom Sees Couples, Individuals and Families Speaks Hungarian & English Gizella supports clients in identifying patterns, resolving conflicts, improving communication, deepening empathy, and fostering emotional and relational growth through trauma-informed, experiential Humanistic Psychology. www.startagaincounselling.com |
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Ida Hallidri Relationship coach based in Toronto, Ontario, Canada and Mexico Sessions over Zoom or Phone Sees Couples & Individuals An individual (Internal Family Systems) and couples (Relational Life Therapy) coach specializing in relational awareness and recovery both for the self and the couple. Learn more: https://www.donttakeadvicefromasinglegirl.com/ Ida Hallidri Based in Toronto, Ontario, Canada and Mexico Sessions over Zoom or Phone Sees Couples & Individuals An individual (Internal Family Systems) and couples (Relational Life Therapy) coach specializing in relational awareness and recovery both for the self and the couple. https://relationalwithida.youcanbook.me/ |
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Jianhui (Jane) Xiong Relationship Therapist based in Ontario, Canada Speaks English, Mandarin and Cantonese Sessions in-Person, over Zoom, & Phone Sees Couples, Individuals & Families My diverse cultural, educational, and international experiences enable me to address challenges through a holistic and integrative Western-Eastern lens. Learn more: http://www.villagehealing.ca/jane-xiong.html https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/therapists/jane-jh-xiong-toronto-on/789361 |
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Koby Smutylo Relationship Therapist and Coach based in California & Canada Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples, Individuals & Families Men, anxiety, depression, transitions. Learn more: Strongandconnected.com |
Israel
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Genendy Radoff Based in Beit Shemesh, Israel Sessions In-Person, Zoom & Phone Sees Couples &Individuals Specializes in complex developmental trauma, specifically childhood sexual abuse. Contact: 052.651.6582 Genendy Radoff Relationship therapist based in Beit Shemesh, Israel Sessions In-Person, Zoom & Phone Sees Couples &Individuals Specializes in complex developmental trauma, specifically childhood sexual abuse. |
United Kingdom
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Claire McNamara-Wright Relationship Therapist Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples Claire is a qualified Integrative counsellor, focusing on working with couples and individuals using Relational Life Therapy (RLT), a powerful, skills-based approach that helps partners break free from destructive patterns, build accountability, improve communication, restore balance, and create deeper intimacy and connection through a collaborative, gentle process, at your own pace. She can help you reduce anxiety, build more fulfilling personal and professional relationships, and feel more confident and empowered to make choices that bring greater calm and happiness. Learn more: www.re-mind.co.uk |
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Mary Cooper Relationship Therapist & Coach Sessions over Zoom (anywhere) & In-Person (Canterbury, Kent, England UK) Sees Couples & Individuals Mary is an experienced, registered, EMDR trauma therapist and a certified and registered 'Heal Your Life' coach and workshop facilitator. She specializes in Complex EMDR trauma therapy and blends this with the IFS Internal Family Systems approach. This combination provide a gentle and powerfully effective treatment for trauma. She has been studying RLT over the past three years and is now offering Coaching in this powerful, ground breaking, couples therapy work. You can find her profile on www.bacp.co.uk search for therapist and type in her name and Herne Bay. |
United States
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Amanda Johnson Relationship Therapist Sessions over In-Person & Zoom Sees Couples & Individuals in CA, TN, and CO Amanda's specialties include Relationship Healing for Individuals and Couples. She offers integrative trauma healing blending traditional, somatic, and psychedelic assisted therapies. Learn more: www.amandajohnsonlcsw.com |
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Beth Ostergaard Relationship Therapist Sessions In-Person, Zoom & Phone Sees Couples & Individuals in NJ, NY and (pending) WA Beth specializes in couples therapy focused on authenticity and accountability. She has many years of experience working with relational trauma, anxiety and depression, family relationships and health/medical issues. Learn more: https://www.psychologytoday.com/profile/223034 |
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Cynthia Lackner Relationship Therapist Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples & Individuals Cynthia is a Certified Emotional Brain Training Provider where she teaches people how to rewire their limbic brain to diminish stress, anxiety, and depression. The modality is based in neuroscience. She is also certified in eating disorders. She has had a private practice since 2012. Learn more: www.cynthialackner.com |
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Harmony Scott (not currently accepting clients) Relationship Coach based in United States (Hawaii, Colorado & California) Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples & Individuals Harmony is a love, life & intimacy coach supporting clients with transformative tools of RLT, somatic work, neuroscience, holistic sexuality, neo-tantra, breathwork & conscious partnership. Learn more: www.harmonyscottcoaching.com Harmony Scott Relationship Coach based in United States (Hawaii, Colorado & California) Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples & Individuals Harmony is a love, life & intimacy coach supporting clients with transformative tools of RLT, somatic work, neuroscience, holistic sexuality, neo-tantra, breathwork & conscious partnership. Contact: [email protected] / www.harmonyscottcoaching.com |
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Lauren Martinson Relationship Coach based in United States Sessions over Zoom, In-person, & over the phone Sees Couples & Individuals Lauren is a mindset coach and a certified clinical hypnotherapist and IEMT practitioner. She also has a background working at an in-patient addiction treatment facility. Learn more: laurenmartinson.com Lauren Martinson Relationship Coach based in United States Sessions over Zoom, In-person, & over the phone Sees Couples & Individuals Lauren is a mindset coach and a certified clinical hypnotherapist and IEMT practitioner. She also has a background working at an in-patient addiction treatment facility. Contact: [email protected] / laurenmartinson.com |
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Leor Ram Relationship Therapist Sessions In-Person & over Zoom in CA, TX and NY Sees Couples, Individuals and Families Leor Ram, LMFT, LPCC, LMHC, NCC, CGP, is a licensed psychotherapist based in Beverly Hills and specializing in high-impact work with couples and individuals seeking deeper relational change. His approach integrates depth-oriented psychotherapy with Relational Life Therapy (RLT), blending directness, compassion, and accountability to help partners move from gridlock to genuine intimacy. Leor leads a boutique, concierge-style practice and is passionate about teaching, mentoring clinicians, and advancing transformative couples work. Learn more: www.ipgtherapy.com |
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Michael Jarvis Relationship Coach based in United States Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples & Individuals After 30 years in corporate leadership, Michael dedicated himself to Relational Life Therapy in 2013, first transforming his own relationships before training to help others do the same. Michael provide a high-accountability, results-oriented coaching environment for couples and individuals. Learn more: YourRelationalLife.com |
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Petra Gojun Relationship Coach & Therapist Coaching in USA & Croatia, Therapy in California Speaks English, Croatian/ Serbian/ Bosnian Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples, Individuals & Families Petra's specialty is somatic and relational therapy for people at a threshold; when the old shape of your life, your relationship, or your sense of self no longer holds, and the next one isn't clear yet. She works with individuals, couples, and adult family dyads, and bring particular attention to multicultural and cross-cultural experience. Learn more: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/petra-gojun-alameda-ca/1121032 |
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Walton Montet Relationship Coach based in Denver, CO Sessions over Zoom & In-Person Sees Couples, Individuals & Families Experiential Relationship Connection Coach Guiding relationships (family, couples, men, teens) with a mentor vibe. Navigating real teamwork through relationship, self esteem, life skills. Focused Neurobiology self-relationship guidance. A System/Offense to make real authentic connection for change. Learn more: Sacredplayground.net |
California
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Janet Weber Relationship Therapist based California Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples Works with both couples & individuals. Works with a lot of men with ADHD. The methods she utilizes include compassionate Inquiry, IFS & RLT. Learn more: https://www.delvetherapy.com/ |
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Jennifer Schmelzer Based in Santa Monica, CA Sessions over Zoom & In-Person in California, Florida and New York Sees Couples & Individuals Focus on anxiety, depression, eating disorders, and relationships. Finding meaning and purpose while living well relationally. https://secure.helloalma.com/providers/jennifer-schmelzer/ Jennifer Schmelzer Relationship Therapist based in Santa Monica, CA Sessions over Zoom & In-Person in California, Florida and New York Sees Couples & Individuals Focus on anxiety, depression, eating disorders, and relationships. Finding meaning and purpose while living well relationally. Learn more: https://secure.helloalma.com/providers/jennifer-schmelzer/ |
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Jessica Peters Relationship Therapist based in San Jose, CA Sessions over Zoom & In-Person & Over Zoom Sees Couples & Individuals Jessica Peters, MA, LMFT is a licensed psychotherapist based in California, with over 13 years of experience working with children, adolescents, adults, families, and parents across private practice, school-based, and nonprofit settings. She specializes in individual and relationship therapy, infertility challenges, pregnancy and motherhood, and parenting support, drawing on psychodynamic and relational approaches — including Relational Life Therapy. Jessica's warm, down-to-earth style is grounded in the belief that a strong therapeutic relationship is at the heart of meaningful change, and she offers both in-person sessions and virtual therapy throughout California. Learn more: www.jessicapetersmft.com |
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Madison Cole Relationship Therapist Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples & Individuals Specializes in psychodynamic theory in combination with person-centered cognitive behavioral therapy. Madison's goal is to help clients gain a deeper sense of self awareness by understanding what motivates their behavior, ultimately empowering clients to make choices that align with their own values. Learn more: https://www.psychologytoday.com/profile/1372166 |
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Marialena Malejan-Roussere Based in San Mateo, CA Sessions In-Person & over Zoom Sees Couples & Individuals Specializes in couples, individuals and group psychotherapy. 408-702-7429 / [email protected] www.relationshipharmony.com Marialena Malejan-Roussere Relationship Therapist based in San Mateo, CA Sessions In-Person & over Zoom Sees Couples & Individuals Specializes in couples, individuals and group psychotherapy. Learn more: www.relationshipharmony.com |
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Ryan Page Relationship Therapist Sessions In-Person & over Zoom Sees Couples & Individuals Specializing in couples work, eating disorders, betrayal recovery. Learn more: www.ipgtherapy.com |
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Suzanne Bukinik Relationship Therapist Sessions In-Person & over Zoom Sees Couples, Individuals & Families Specializing in helping clients release old patterns and beliefs in order to get closer to the life and relationships they want. Learn more: www.SuzanneBukinikTherapy.com |
Colorado
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Celeste Labadie (not currently accepting clients) Relationship Therapist based in Colorado Sees couples and individuals in person & over zoom Works with couples at any stage in relationship and individuals using hypnosis to treat anxiety. Learn more: www.WillingtoLove.com Celeste Labadie Relationship Therapist Based in Colorado Sees couples and individuals in person & over zoom Works with couples at any stage in relationship and individuals using hypnosis to treat anxiety. www.WillingtoLove.com [email protected] |
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Erin Flynn Relationship Therapist based in Colorado Sees couples in person & over zoom Specializes in somatic, contemplative relational therapy and using RLT to bring relational harmony to couples. Learn more: Bouldersomatictherapy.com Erin Flynn Relationship Therapist Based in Colorado Sees couples in person & over zoom Specializes in somatic, contemplative relational therapy and using RLT to bring relational harmony to couples. Bouldersomatictherapy.com [email protected] |
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Jodie Dean Relationship Therapist based in Colorado Sees couples and individuals in person & over zoom Works with burned out moms and stuck men - individually or as a couple - to move in a fresh direction in relationship. Learn more: www.tailwindcounseling.net |
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Suzette Halterman Certified ++ Based in Colorado Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples Specializes in working with couples that are navigating big differences like faith, parenting etc. Contact: 970-903-0059 https://www.suzettehaltermancoaching.com/ Suzette Halterman Certified ++ Relationship coach based in Colorado Sessions over Zoom Sees Couples Specializes in working with couples that are navigating big differences like faith, parenting etc. Learn more: https://www.suzettehaltermancoaching.com/ |
Connecticut
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Marybeth Manley Based in Connecticut Sessions by Zoom & Phone Sees Couples Has a Masters degree in Marriage and Family Therapy Contact: 203-984-1038 / [email protected] Marybeth Manley Relationship therapist based in Connecticut Sessions by Zoom & Phone Sees Couples Has a Masters degree in Marriage and Family Therapy |
Florida
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Bianca Gabay Based in Coral Gables, Florida Sessions In-Person & Zoom Sees Couples & Individuals Eager to work with those who desire to become more connected with themselves and seek to increase their capacity for intimacy. Contact: [email protected] Bianca Gabay Relationship therapist based in Coral Gables, Florida Sessions In-Person & Zoom Sees Couples & Individuals Eager to work with those who desire to become more connected with themselves and seek to increase their capacity for intimacy. |
Maryland
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Shanell Wyche Hodges Relationship Therapist Sessions In-Person & Zoom Sees Couples & Individuals Couples/Marriage therapy; PTSD; Individuals with childhood trauma and/or anxiety; Attachment Issues Learn more: togethercouplescounseling.com/about-shanell/ |
Missouri
New Jersey
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Shari Carpman Based in Freehold, New Jersey Sessions In-Person (NJ) & Zoom (NJ & NY) Sees Couples Provides parent coaching and couples counseling to address, conflict negotiation, parenting challenges, anxiety issues and ineffective patterns of communication between partners. Anxiety Disorders. 732-845-9605 / [email protected] Shari Carpman Relationship Therapist based in Freehold, New Jersey Sessions In-Person (NJ) & Zoom (NJ & NY) Sees Couples Provides parent coaching and couples counseling to address, conflict negotiation, parenting challenges, anxiety issues and ineffective patterns of communication between partners. Anxiety Disorders. |
New York
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Carol Bastien Relationship therapist based in New York Sessions by Zoom & Phone Sees Couples & Individuals An individual and couples therapist providing tailored, relational and strength based counseling services. I believe we are our best in balanced healthy communities and join with you to build them. Focus on Mental Health, Trauma Informed Care, Cognitive Behavioral Techniques, Relational and Social Skills Training, Harm Reduction, Internal Family System Learn more: headway.co/providers/carol-bastien Carol Bastien Based in New York Sessions by Zoom & Phone Sees Couples & Individuals An individual and couples therapist providing tailored, relational and strength based counseling services. I believe we are our best in balanced healthy communities and join with you to build them. Focus on Mental Health, Trauma Informed Care, Cognitive Behavioral Techniques, Relational and Social Skills Training, Harm Reduction, Internal Family System Contact: 646.207.7176 / headway.co/providers/carol-bastien |
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Gretchen Cohoon Relationship Therapist based in New York Sessions by Zoom & In-Person Sees Couples, Individuals & Families Gretchen specializes in working with Complex PTSD and relational trauma, as well as LGBTQ individuals and couples seeking more secure and empowered relationships. She is especially attuned to clients with a spiritual inclination and an interest in embodied practice who want their healing to integrate mind, body, and relationship. Learn more: gretchencohoon.com |
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Gwendolyn Feldman Relationship therapist based in New York Sessions by Zoom & In-Person Sees Couples & Individuals Gwen works predominantly with people who suffer with CPTSD and have severe childhood trauma. She is psychoanalytically trained with a strong relational and interpersonal focus. She helps people uncover relationship patterns and roles they play in perpetuating cycles which are no longer adaptive. She often say it takes two to tango but you if can’t identify your missteps, you’ll always continue to dance incorrectly. Learn more: www.GwenFeldman.com |
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Lindsey Wirht Relationship therapist based in New York Sessions by Zoom Sees Couples Lindsey specializes in couples work centered around honesty, self-accountability, and connection. She is experienced with anxiety + stress-related issues, ocd, relational trauma, family/in-law dynamics, finances, and family planning. Learn more: https://www.lindseywirht-therapy.com/ |
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Reine Hewitt Relationship Therapist based in New York Sessions by Zoom & In-Person Sees Couples & Individuals Reine specializes in working with couples and individuals dealing with issues related to life transition, grief, parenting and neurodiversity. Reine works with traditional and non-traditional relationship structures. Learn more: www.reinehewitt.com |
Texas
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Misty Jasso Relationship therapist based in Texas Sessions by Zoom & In-Person Sees Couples & Individuals Fearlessly attuned and deeply insightful, Misty confronts generational trauma and emotional complexity with clarity, compassion, and unflinching truth to guide transformative healing in couples and individuals. Learn more: www.distinct1therapy.com |
Washington
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Carly Allred
Relationship Therapist Sessions by Zoom Sees Couples, Individuals & Families Specializes in helping clients learn relational skills and improve the way they show up in relationships. Learn more: carlyallredtherapy.com |
Frequently Asked Questions
Can Three Sessions of RLT Actually Help?
Yes! Many RLT participants report a significant reframing of their problems and a gaining of the ability to respond more effectively. RLT is known for creating lasting change in very little time. Practitioners are trained to speak the truth to clients in a way that elicits fast and permanent character change. RLT makes an alliance with the part of your brain that doesn't want to use the tools. It teaches you how to respond to others from the "wise adult" part of your brain and get more of what you want in life. Click here to learn more about what makes RLT unique and powerful.
How do you determine the sliding scale fee?
Sliding scale allows people an affordable option for couples and relationship therapy. Fees are typically based on household income, family size, and overall financial need. Some couples therapists and coaches may ask for proof of income (like pay stubs or tax returns), while others use the honor system.
Do you offer virtual sessions?
Yes. Many of our RLT therapists offer telehealth sessions, giving couples access to therapy no matter where they live.
How Are Practitioners Chosen for RLF?
Our therapy is provided by trained and vetted RLT practitioners, many of whom offer services through our sliding scale program to ensure affordability. All therapists are committed to the principles of relational empowerment, integrity, and healing.
How Can I Find the Right Practitioner for My Situation?
When you complete our Therapy Inquiry Form, we take the time to understand your relationship goals, challenges, and preferences—including financial needs, scheduling, and whether you're seeking in-person or virtual sessions. Based on this information, our team will thoughtfully match you with an RLT-trained therapist who aligns with your unique situation.
If at any point you feel the fit isn’t quite right, we’re here to support a smooth transition to another practitioner. Our priority is helping you find a therapist you feel safe with, challenged by, and supported by—so meaningful work can begin.
If at any point you feel the fit isn’t quite right, we’re here to support a smooth transition to another practitioner. Our priority is helping you find a therapist you feel safe with, challenged by, and supported by—so meaningful work can begin.
What makes Relational Life Foundation’s therapy unique?
We offer therapy grounded in Relational Life Therapy (RLT)—a bold, skills-based approach that addresses patterns, builds accountability, and helps couples reconnect with respect and intimacy.
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DISCLAIMER:
While the therapists and coaches listed are in the process of completing the course work required by RLI for full RLT certification, RLF does not guarantee results from anyone on this list. No professional listed is an agent of RLI of RLF, and all treatment is the sole responsibility of the individual therapist or coach. Any arrangement made by you and your therapist or coach is strictly between you and them. |